I'm a nice guy, and it's destroying my life... - Page 2

Veritas · #26 01-21-2006, 03:31 PM

Bottom line is, if no-one wants to go out with you, then you must be really ugly.

Hey, wait a minute, I'm still single...

Carnivale Ed · #27 01-21-2006, 03:37 PM

Wanna go out? I'm a big wheel in the gulag industry.

Veritas · #28 01-21-2006, 06:15 PM

Aren't you gay? Or were you faking it in my search-for-a-gay-best-friend thread?

Godless Dave · #29 01-21-2006, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by The Lone Ranger

The way to deal with someone who’s taking advantage of you is most-definitely not to redouble your efforts to be an even “nicer” guy, in the hopes that (s)he will wake up one day and realize what a wonderful person you are.

Wise words from the Lone Ranger. I put them in bold because they really sum up the problem you're having.

Adora · #30 01-22-2006, 12:26 AM

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I think he realised that wasn't working, Adora. He's asking how to adjust his personality to no longer be like that.

And I gave him some pointers to fix his problem as well.

See? I can be helpful as well, sometimes.

You're so cute when you're trying to be nice!

I'm cute all the time, damnit!

Veritas · #31 01-22-2006, 01:31 AM

No you're not. You're evil incarnate.

Dragar · #32 01-22-2006, 02:27 AM

And evil incarnate is only cute some of the time. :yup:

Veritas · #33 01-22-2006, 02:31 AM

Most of the time it's...kinda evil.

Adora · #34 01-22-2006, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by scarletpeaches

No you're not. You're evil incarnate.

The two are not mutually exclusive. Evidence: Kittens.

Dingfod · #35 01-22-2006, 01:21 PM

Picky, picky.

Veritas · #36 01-22-2006, 01:50 PM

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No you're not. You're evil incarnate.

The two are not mutually exclusive. Evidence: Kittens.

I'll see your kittens and raise you rabid attack-hamsters.

Adora · #37 01-22-2006, 11:02 PM

Damnit, rabid attack hamsters win everytime.

Veritas · #38 01-23-2006, 01:12 AM

You're being too nice lately, Adora. Let's have sex and see who dies first.

Megatron · #39 01-23-2006, 02:31 AM

One thing that came to mind is ... imagine a girl who is as much as a doormat as you are, dude... then try to imagine having a relationship with her.

Doesn't really sound like much fun, does it? People who aren't willing to stand on their own feet and make their own decisions almost *always* end up being a burden rather than a partner. Which would you rather have?

...and of course, which would you rather be?

I learned the hard way - I used to be just the same, and a friend of mine told me the same thing I just typed in here... really got me thinking.

So yeah, it took time, but I think if my wrecked (at the time, anyway) psyche could undergo the change, yours can too.